Yesterday I woke up feeling cranky. I’m not sure why, but for whatever reason it cascaded down into every aspect of my day. First I tried on 16 different shirts wondering how it is possible to have that much back fat. Where the hell does it come from? I mean, when girls are younger we worry about gaining weight, but nobody warns us it might show up on our back. Ick. Needless to say this made me even grumpier. To add to that, all my clothes seemed dirty, wrinkled, or missing due to the fact I’m living out of a suitcase (or exploded suitcase) at my sister’s place. I finally decided on a sweatshirt and proceeded to put socks on only to discover a hole in the toe of one sock. “Jesus Christ, throw me a bone!” I yelled. Well, God didn’t like that apparently.
As I’m driving to work, with Christina Aguilera blasting in my speakers, I realize there is some foreign noise happening with my brand new car. I turn off the stereo and decide, I must have a f*#@&ing flat tire. Strangely though it wasn’t pulling me one way or another, just making an inordinate amount of noise. I pull over and park, note the flat tire and think, “How can this be my day? Was my life going so well that it’s just time for me to have a domino of shit happen?” And of course, being that I have the worst car Karma, the tire didn’t get flat until the end of my two weeks home, leaving me only a day to deal with this.
I proceed to walk to work, but feel I have a bit of comfort in the fact I had thought to bring my IPOD and earphones with me. I start walking, put my headphones on, and hit play on my IPOD. Nothing. The menu doesn’t light up. Nothing. So even though I had fully charged my IPOD, what I’m assuming happened is that when I put it on Hold, I must have had it running or something and now it’s dead. Well, Goddammit.
When I get to work I start debating over how I’m going to deal with this tire. You see, for one, it’s a new car and I have yet to even look for the spare and jack. And two, my trunk is filled with junk from my move, including a big dirty dolly that Scott had borrowed to move his stuff. I have AAA and I know where Les Schwab is, but I just couldn’t wrap my mind around how I was going to go about this. I was starving and I didn’t have my AAA card on me (because it would be too practical to actually keep that in my car or on my person). To add more misery to my day, I discover the sweatshirt I have chosen to wear smells terribly. Leaving me no choice but to strip down to my tank top (which everyone knows I hate to do in public).
Here is where things start to shift in my head. Rebecca from work tells me she’ll drive me up to my car if I like and help me with whatever I need to do. I decide what I need is food and then to empty my trunk. I could 1) have AAA change the flat, or 2) change the flat myself, or 3) instead of emptying out the trunk I could just have AAA tow it to Les Schwab. I can’t believe I even debated over all this. Once I got food everything changed.
Rebecca took me to my car, we were down to our butch tank tops and ready to go, so we started moving all the shit out of my trunk into my back seat. I put the dolly on the sidewalk, stuffed my face with few more bitefuls of Cashew Chicken and then we went to work changing the tire ourselves. Rebecca was mostly there for moral support, but it helped a lot. The sun was hot, the asphalt was hot, and the tire was cooperative. It was easy as pie. As I was driving to Les Schwab I thought to myself how funny the day had been.
Basically, here is where my point comes in. Prepare yourself for uncharacteristically reflective crap. Some of you know I’m planning a big road trip for when this job is done. Well, once I had eaten, changed the tire, and was well on my way to a better day (since Les Schwab doesn’t charge for fixing flats) I realized something sort of funny. Perhaps God thought, “How dare you think that the fact you have back fat and holes in your socks means you have it bad. How dare you actually bitch about your day when you are heading into work close to 10am and you probably aren’t going to stay very long. How dare you ask Jesus Christ to throw you a bone.” Okay, so maybe he isn’t that vengeful, so then I thought, “My god, if this hadn’t happened I never would have even considered what would happen if I got a flat in the middle of nowhere on my road trip.” Now I am thinking, maybe I shouldn’t bring much with me, I should keep my trunk easily accessible, and maybe I should consider getting a real spare tire instead of the flimsy ones that you can’t go very far or very fast on.
In the end, the stars had aligned to warn me that I have a lot more to think about than just whether or not I can carry mace on this trip. Not to mention how much I love being self-sufficient and capable. Changing that tire was another rush for me. I’ve done it before, but it’s always nice to know you don’t have to rely on anyone for anything.
One last note, and I think this is sort of funny since I was planning on blogging about this anyway before I even read Gretchen’s blog. When I was sitting reading my book in Les Schwab, I looked at my hands and noticed they were covered in dirt and blood (apparently I had cut myself during the tire swapping incident, presumably on gravel). I kept staring at my hands while I was flipping pages in my book, signing for my car, being handed back my keys. Despite the fact there was a bathroom in the waiting room, I didn’t wash my hands. There was something comforting about the dirt. Maybe it was the fact it represented accomplishment to me. Maybe it was a reminder of how the day had taken a turn from a miserable morning to an enlightened afternoon. Or simply maybe it was pride in having all these men caked in oil see that I had changed my own tire today before bringing in the flat. I know changing the tire was easy, but there was still a part of me that felt better about myself when I looked around at the other women sitting in the waiting room who had obviously had their cars towed in or had someone else change their tire. I was the only one who showed up with the flat in her trunk.
So I enjoyed the dirt of accomplishment for a good two hours before finally washing away the day’s events.